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The Absurdity of Stanford’s Marshmallow Experiment

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One of the key skills successful people have that others don’t is the ability to delay gratification. Training yourself to resist immediate rewards and to wait for larger more compelling ones can make a huge difference to your life. It can help you make more informed decisions and excel in your personal and professional pursuits. But it wasn’t until the 1970s that the long terms benefits of this skill were put to the test in the famous Marshmallow Experiment. Stanford University psychologist; Walter Mischel, placed a plate of marshmallows (or cookies in some cases) in front of a class of…

6 Killer Tips to Concentrate on Studies and Avoid Distractions

Learning how to concentrate on studies can make a big difference to your college career and your future work career. While distractions may only cost you time at this stage of your life journey, frequent distractions and interruptions can cost you a lot of money in the future. So let me share the 6 tips I have used to help me concentrate on my studies in undergraduate and graduate school. 1. Concentrate on Studies and Work: Why We Don’t Concentrate Recent statistics show that the average worker spends between 1.5 – 3 hours avoiding work. That time is spent doing…

How to Wake Up Early in the Morning: Guaranteed!

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Before I decided to wake up early in the morning, I was an extreme night owl. I slept during most hours of the day, and stayed up during the night. But once I made the switch, I found the early morning to be extremely rewarding. In fact, if you’re a growth oriented person, the early morning hours will add to that growth. Starting your day early allows you to flow with the natural rhythm of the earth. It will allow you to experience the healing effects of the early sunlight to the twittering of the morning birds. Moreover, I’ve found…

Waking Up at 5 AM: How I Became an Early Riser in 3 Days

Waking up at 5 AM has added many benefits to my life. In fact, waking up this early allows me to be more productive, and it also connects me with the natural rhythm of the earth. I honestly feel more in-sync with it, and it’s a feeling I wouldn’t trade for the world. 1. Is it Possible to Wake Up at 5 AM in 3 Days? This post is about my experience trying to wake up at 5 am and how I managed to do that in three days. For a better and more effective approach (that takes more than…

Tea vs. Coffee: Why I Finally Chose to Drink Tea Over Coffee for Life

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Tea vs. Coffee: should you start your day with tea or coffee? That’s the main question. In fact, the tea vs. coffee debate is a raging one. You will find people who swear by tea and curse at coffee, and those who champion coffee and despise tea. After reading the science, I decided to choose tea over coffee. Here is why and here’s how things turned out for me. 1. Tea vs. Coffee in the Morning Coffee used to be my super-fuel for the morning….but not anymore. I am not going to lie to you, a cup of black coffee…

Falling Off Good Habits And How to Recover Using 3 Simple Rules

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I wish had a dollar for every time I heard someone say they wish they could just stick to their good habits and not fall off track. Just ask yourself this: how often have you tried to stick to the good habit of eating a well-balanced diet and have fallen off the wagon a few weeks or a few months later? What about exercise? What about writing? Here are some tips to deal with habit relapse and get back on track. 1. Why Good Habits Slip? The thing about good habits is that they require both – work and patience.…

21 Day Habit Timeline: How to Form a Habit in 21 Days (Day by Day!)

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Is there such a thing as 21 day habit? Does it really only take 21 days to form a new habit? We all want to form good habits because habits are practically beneficial: They are fairly automatic; take little to no effort to perform and basically allow us to do more with less. In fact, thanks to my writing habit, I have been able to start this blog. (You too can start one: here is how to start a personal blog.) So asking whether the 21 day habit is a myth is a critical question to ask. Is it really…

How to Motivate Yourself to Study in College

We’re in the beginning of the first semester of College…again. But not for me anymore. I’ve been through the grind of starting every academic semester for the past 10 years — from being a freshman and all the way to being a Ph.D student. I’ve studied a lot of things. See my story for more. And I absolutely love learning and growing. However, studying and motivating yourself to study daily is a tough challenge for many people. It’s not easy to get up every day, go to classes, come back after a long day and still have to study some…

The “Steps Method” to Break Bad Habits

People almost never succeed in breaking a bad habit. We often hear stories about people who quit smoking or drinking only to get back to their old ways and start the process all over again. Being addicted to your bad habit, whatever it might be, can enslave you. Chronic obsession with a bad habit can rob you from being present – you’ll be preoccupied with the memory of your bad habit to the detriment of being in the now. And if it becomes compulsive, it will begin to harm your productivity and also affect your self-esteem and sense of self-worth.…

How to Practice Self-Compassion (The Right Way)

The road to success is filled with obstacles and roadblocks, and before you succeed you’re going to fail; not once, but many, many times. It’s an inevitable part of the process. And what determines whether you will get up and keep trying instead of letting go and surrendering is your ability to deal with failure emotionally. One of the hallmarks of success is having high self-efficacy. In my article on self-efficacy, I discussed the importance of having an unrelenting drive to realize the compelling vision that you’ve created of yourself. I described self-efficacy as being part and parcel of the…